Wednesday, October 25, 2006

love doctor

dear love doctor,

i fall in love. i'm all head over heels. i'm acting crazy. i want to see tat person all the time. want to talk, phone, sms, everything. help.

answers:
  1. Decide. whether you want to be with the person or you just want to enjoy the feeling of falling in love, the drama, the tears and joy and hope for the best? Okay if your answer is the second one, then go ahead with whatever that is that you are doing. Call the person, sms the person on every single minute, and i can guarantee that you'll have the drama and experience the pain of luhhveee..
  2. But if you want to get the person to like you back, even to like you more than you do like the person. You gotta play your cards right, buddy!
  3. All i'm saying is: dont be too eager. Nobody wants a desperado, or a stalker, or a private investigator. In fact, do the opposite, turn the table, be so untouchable, so admirable, so "goodness me. you're just too good to be true" that the other person would desperately wanting to be with you.
  4. It's all good. dont rush. take your time. be there, then disappeared. be charming, then be as cold as ice. Everybody loves challenge, love mystery, both men and women. We wont appreciate something that we get to easy. BUT we always want something that we cannot have. Am i right? So, raise up thy chin, be confident and just play the field.
  5. Okay, so love is a tricky word. You might want to act cool, but in front of the person you just cannot help but to lose yourself. Phew. That's what i am saying at first? Are you in for winning or for defeat? If you want to get the desired result, as high school teachers will say : WORK harder! see the big pictures. IF you have made a decision, the stick to it to the end. School, work and relationships are the same thing, whoever can control one's emotions and think clearly, will get the last laugh.
best regards,
love doctor

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