omat-omat neng lincew, also known as wedang jahe or kuliah padat

in making money:

accept the fact, that once u know u can make money, greed will come to haunt you
your pride is unleashed and one night victory can kill the humility in you
get a grip on yourself
you never know how ambitious you are,
how cruel you can be
until u taste how good it is to be on top of the world

never tell yourself that u've made it to the top
because there is no such thing as an overnight success
tonight you might be a billionaire
and in a speed of a blink, you realised that u have lost everything that u earned

your true measure of capability
is not defined by how much money you have in your bank account, now
u can be totally broke now
but you know that tomorrow you are going to turn the table arround

no matter how genius you are
no matter how briliant the business idea tat u have
no matter how confidence you are that one day you are going to conquer the world
if you never taste how it feels like to be at the most undignified position
if you never know the term submission to the authority
if you never learn the term dedication in doing the least important job
just screw yourself because you lose the first step already

in relationship:

the key in relationship is time
learn as much, while you still have the time
girls, dont trust every word that your men say until they are being proven overtime
dont declare love if you have not seen your lover at his or her lowest turning point,or the "before" version
dont dwell in toxic relationship, eventhough you still love the person, time will heal
it can be the right person, it is not always the right time

in friendships:

classify your friends in groups
those whom you allow to see your outer skin
those whom you allow to see you heart
those whom you pour your heart into

in studying:

screw your ego, dont pursue education JUST BECAUSE
you think that a particular degree from a particular university will earn you an acknowledgement from your society
your worth is just as far as how much you value your self
pursue your passion and by doing that you know you accomplish the true education

in the search for truth:

keep searching until you have no more doubt in your faith
search with desperation and obsession, i'm serious!
once you find the truth, hold unto it.
keep believing and following eventhough the road is rocky
i can testify that HE never fails me yesterday, today and tomorrow

in enjoying lyfe:

what's the point of having million bucks in your bank account but you are not spending it for your personal pleasure? Asians, learn from bule, will ya!! splurge urself if you dont want to get heart attack too soon

in treating yourself

love yourself, dont be a narcist though, respect yourself, value yourself highly
the way you treat yourself will be a measure on how others will treat you

if you have a low self-esteem
you are more likely to accept bad treatment from others
because your security comes from other people recognition

you deserve to be treated with respect by everyone and anyone
but in return, treat others with respect and show everyone your kind appreciation

walk with your chest up, look at other people in the eye and speak up your mind
dont look down on other people,
even the weakest one has a story to tell
but dont think that other people are too high to reach
even kings have soft side that you can touch

last but not least, live your lyfe to the fullest